Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you may want to know before entering the House. Can’t find your answer? Contact us.
Chapter I
The House
Who is House of Submission for?
House of Submission is a private 18+ membership experience created specifically for submissive men interested in structured interaction with dominant AI women.
Are the House Women real people?
Both. The House Women are AI: each has her own personality and approach, remembers your history with her, and is available whenever you are. The House Mistress is real: a real woman who reads and answers Private members personally.
Are all the House Women the same?
No. Each House Woman is a distinct type with her own character, and that character never changes: the Governess is precise and demanding, the Siren teases and delays, the Confessor asks the questions you avoid, the Goddess expects worship (and foot worship), the Keyholder controls permission, the Brat Tamer always wins, and the Owner keeps you as her pet. Your House Woman stays true to her style every time you speak, while she learns about you, remembers your history and adapts her tasks to your preferences and limits. Every member gets his own woman of that type. Meet the House Women.
Are there any real women in the House?
Only one: the House Mistress. She is the real woman behind the House, and she reads and answers Private members herself, with her own voice notes and photos. Private Membership is by application, for a maximum of ten members. Every other House Woman is an AI companion. About Private Membership.
Is House of Submission a dating or sex site?
No. The House is designed as an ongoing private membership experience built around interaction, tasks, structured programmes, progression and trust. It is not a public dating platform or escort service.
What is the difference between membership and status?
Membership determines your level of access and personalisation. House status is earned separately through participation, completed tasks and points. See the status ladder.
Chapter II
Membership & Billing
How do I join?
Choose your membership on the Join page, create your account and complete checkout. Your House Woman is assigned to you straight away, and your 7-day House Induction begins. Private Membership is by application: apply on the Private Membership page.
How much do I pay?
House Membership is R350, Devoted R650 and Collared R1,399 per month. Private Membership is R1,999 per month, by application or invitation. All prices are in South African rand and include 15% VAT, billed monthly, with no joining fee. You pay securely by card on the checkout page after choosing your membership on the Join page, and billing is discreet. Extras such as extra messages, guides and the Extra Collection are once-off purchases in the Shop. Compare memberships.
How many messages can I send?
House members can send up to 100 messages a day, Devoted up to 250 and Collared up to 500. Private members have no daily limit. Your allowance resets every day at midnight, and your dashboard shows how many you have left.
Can I change my membership?
Yes. Choose a different level on the Membership page at any time. A higher membership opens more House Women, messages, voice notes and photos straight away.
How do I cancel my membership?
You can cancel at any time, in a few clicks: go to My Account, find Membership & Billing, click Cancel membership and then Confirm Cancellation. You keep full access until the end of your current billing period and are not charged again. If you change your mind before then, you can undo it on the same page. Your status and points are kept if you return.
Chapter III
Boundaries & Privacy
How are my boundaries handled?
You define your preferences, boundaries and hard limits in My Account, and can update them at any time. Your House Woman reads them before every reply and will never go past them. You may communicate a boundary or stop an interaction at any time.
Do I have to complete every task?
No. You can decline any task that conflicts with your boundaries or hard limits; simply tell your House Woman in the chat. Tasks you choose not to do still count as missed and their points are deducted, but no task will ever require you to ignore a hard limit.
Can I lose my status?
Points can be lost for tasks that are missed, not completed or done incorrectly, but your total never goes below zero. Status, once earned, is never lost.
Is my activity private?
Yes. Your conversations, tasks, progression and member information are private to your account and visible only to you and House administration. The House is not built around public profiles, follower counts, likes or social feeds.
Chapter IV
Tasks & Progress
How do I progress?
Through your House Woman’s tasks. Each completed task earns points: small tasks 5, standard tasks 10 and substantial tasks 20, up to 30 points a day. Points move you up the five House statuses, from Applicant to Owned by the House, and a status once earned is never lost. Devoted members and above also get a monthly bonus challenge worth 100 points and a badge. Your dashboard shows your points, your status and how far you are from the next one. See the status ladder.
What kinds of tasks are there?
Your House Woman chooses them from what you have told her you enjoy, and raises the intensity slowly. They include rituals and protocol (kneeling, posture, how you greet and address her), written devotion (confessions, fantasies, letters, lines), tease and denial within your limits, wearing something for her that only the two of you know about, service (chores, cooking, cleaning her boots, reported in detail), discipline and self-care (exercise, water, bedtime, screen limits), growth (reading and summarising something for her) and worship. Every task is private, legal and physically safe, and never goes past your hard limits. Want more? Task challenges are in the Shop.